tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1477942682635369144.post313001448161403450..comments2023-09-11T08:27:55.335-05:00Comments on Michael's Surrogate Experience: Everything Old is New AgainMichaelhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17218522899376081830noreply@blogger.comBlogger5125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1477942682635369144.post-25711521385375779642011-04-16T14:19:01.853-05:002011-04-16T14:19:01.853-05:00I often have a hard time making decisions, but I t...I often have a hard time making decisions, but I try to remember what a very wise friend once told me (when trying to decide which play to do... oh the trauma of having two conflicting offers!) "Make a choice, and then MAKE IT the BEST choice" Once you've chosen, leap in, both feet, and make it be the right choice. Because there isn't often a clear "better" choice. So pick it. and GO.<br /><br />And look, your gut is telling you TWICE to go with this donor? Why wouldn't you.<br /><br />And Derek? Clearly a keeper. :)<br /><br />- KristaAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1477942682635369144.post-22081977046408778652011-04-15T20:25:26.839-05:002011-04-15T20:25:26.839-05:00We went with our gut and ended up with D and Z. S...We went with our gut and ended up with D and Z. So pretty much our two greatest decisions. If we had waited for evrything to be right, we wouldn't have our two kiddos. You know that whole 'Leap and the net will appear' thing. Or it won't but you'll find you know how to land. Wishing you the best and some peace during this process. Much love!Jodyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17215775496073092876noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1477942682635369144.post-1329558982647891732011-04-15T19:22:39.680-05:002011-04-15T19:22:39.680-05:00I think your gut is always right but we as humans ...I think your gut is always right but we as humans do not trust ourselves to believe that sixth sense. Michael sometimes you just have to take the leap of faith because if you don't u will never get to where u want to be. I mean if u feel it's right do it. No one or no situation is perfect and who knows.. Well only do u when u do it! <br /><br />Picking out donor for eggs and surrogacy is a lot more complicate than picking sperm out of a catalog! LolArikanoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1477942682635369144.post-28241037915526658752011-04-15T18:48:32.772-05:002011-04-15T18:48:32.772-05:00Michael,
In my own attempts to have a child I am s...Michael,<br />In my own attempts to have a child I am starting to go through the phase of "maybe one person is not intended to have everything they want". I have a wonderful job, home, and person to share it with. Just one thing missing.... <br />It seems a bit creepy these women who have done multiple donations. It would mean your child would have 1/2 siblings out there that they don't even know. Since that child will also not know their biological mother it may be a heavy burden to bear. Just my thoughts. Wishing you the best of luck. <br />BarbBarb McClurenoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1477942682635369144.post-60627785683155609662011-04-15T17:00:57.409-05:002011-04-15T17:00:57.409-05:00You are my gut feeling that turned out to be right...You are my gut feeling that turned out to be right.Derekhttp://ruchl.wordpress.comnoreply@blogger.com